We met in the sandbox, which felt kind of like a beach but hardly forbidden – the Garden of Eden without any fruit. I had small hands, his were smaller and were likely to drown in any sea we touched, a forest or a wave or teardrops when saying goodbye. Well, I gave him a kiss on the cheek every few minutes so he invited me to his house. The selling point was a tire-swing, big enough for two: he said, milady, I saved this seat here for you. When no one was looking he would hug my stuffed kitten – our daughter. I didn’t even get angry when he rubbed chocolate onto her nose, split water on her tail. Our first kiss was shared between the three of us, her bell dipping between our chests as if we were pets too. In some ways we were. I pushed him off the bed at night and he bit my toes then spit up, saying my skin still tasted like salt and sand.