When the world tries to tell you who you are, but you feel in your gut who you REALLY are, and all you can do is smile back at the world and throw back your head and howl in the face of adversity,
if you are liberated from deception of all of which is inside your control and outside your control and readily accept the latter, like a nonchalant savant
if you are a disciple to discipline and know that backing down and submitting to the insidious insanity of a day-to-day charade is not even an option, regardless of all the cool comforts it offers in lieu of the heat of the coals you walk upon,
then and only then will you become the master of your destiny