I reference this not as the flower just of nature but in this case for the fact it is our anniversary this is an Oleander of my heart yes the heart is a house all of my feelings and emotions are housed there the Flower I choose to write about is my sister my wife’s sister Liz it’s kind of appropriate since she was the Only one in our wedding party as we were married before a judge I guess she was a witness a witness to The crime as it were to describe her I can use Roy Orbison’s song pretty woman a blonde cutie with Southern roots in Tennessee now she is a near Chicago northerner take southern nights and northern Bright lights infuse them with grace and charm you have begun to see the Oleander that lies beyond my Door yard along my walk and borders the yard of my heart the glistening in the spring rain if you get real Still you can hear tiny sounds of laughter among the joy filled faces the scented bloom fills my living Room where ever I am eye catching satisfying delightful spring and summer what a wonder the spilling Forth of fruitful life she matches the rose in pose an attitude of significance tinged with just enough Brashness to hold your attention until you become beholden to the inner life that shows character Wisdom authority a driven wind that lays down in the most beautiful fashion only to arise and make the Trees sing the glass to shake in the most enjoyable way all in unison they dance the eye stormed by this Profusion of elegance and color truly a best friend to the wayward wind carried near and far secrets rest Within the heart that the Oleander knows and claims in darkness unflappable a sweet ghostliness an Arbor found sweetly remembered but never forgotten unspoiled withstanding the day’s heat showing Resilience a buoyancy of sprit uncommon the thrill that runs with deep rootedness when the sharp wind Does blow she through power of will brings calm a flourish of maturity so lovely that is outstanding in all these gifts she provides the greatest is she calls me friend thanks sis