When I ask you for something like ***, your listening ear, or your help I admit my limits.
It is like prayer which is a moment of giving up some part of my potency ceding a share of my energy and control to a greater something or someone I need.
Intimacy is an asking a surrender of my image my public in-control self a holy moment of exposure.
Itβs like the cat who in battle with another turns over on its back and bares its tender belly yielding itself.