“Don’t lose yourself” , they said but what exactly do you lose? Nothing. You simply go through and learn from an experience and change. It may be a heartbreak that taught you not to trust, or to seal your world away to escape pain. Let me tell you this; You are not a finite thing. You have the capacity to do an infinity of great things to impart what you have your gifts and talents and even pieces of you to those who need it the most be it the young artist by the park or the old musician in the sidewalk or the devil himself. It’s no longer about the odds that something will go wrong, It’s about how much you’ll learn from something that does
Maybe I’m wrong haha but so what this is how I see things. Some people, including me, went through a lot of pain, that they resort self preservation, I can’t blame them, life has been simply too harsh on them. But I took a leap of faith and scrapped that scarcity mindset and just grow through life, learning from the pain no matter how great it might be and be thankful for it.