Employ yourself. Be independent of the uttermost. Don't not upon a man to be the moneymaker. Because it makes you a slave to this man.
He dictates your ways. He controls your days. Get not these words wrong. Some love being the homemaker of the home.
It's not about you or him being King or Queen. Cause an empty throne means not a single thing.
Many ladies in this male control situation have been violated. And never reported it. Some been abused by the male control fool.
Be not a slave to a man by being simply a housewife. Sure some hold onto those old golden ways and not all of them were good things.
You find the arguments you had a few days before. It makes you turn totally different when you seeking money for a few things. You turn on your charm and affection more to play the romantic thrill game. But if you have your own money the power control changes a few steps.