At age 5: always being wrong -that's not love At age 7: being hit for mistakes -that's not love At age 9: daddy leaving every night -that's not love At age 11: daddy not coming home -that's not love At age 13- mommy leaving emotionally -that's not love At age 15- being left for weeks alone -thats not love At age 17- mommy leaving physically -that's not love At age 19: being pressured into "love" -that's not love At age 21: you drinking away your life -that's not love At age 23: putting up with your **** -thats not love At age 25: I might not know what love is, but I know what it isn't