Dear gender queer kid, I know this is difficult. I know that you're struggling. I know that you're perpetually discusted by the shape of your body, the mismatch... The... distortion, Dear queer kid, I know it isn't right. I know it isn't fair. The fact that you have to live with being ridiculed and invalidated for living your truth. I know you're confused, clumsily attempting to tick all the right boxes for a society seemingly hellbent on making you pick one... Or the other. Are you a sister or a brother? Will you be a father or a mother? Going whole days dehydrated because you don't want to be in the wrong bathroom. And yes- it's okay not to use the disabled toilet. Your gender is not a disability. It should not be treated as a liability. Your gender is FREAKING BEAUTIFUL!!! So dear queer kids- Have hope, have pride! You are bold and bright, you don't need to hide ...who YOU are! This letter is to Ash and Kai, Jay and Ty, To Sam and Rebel, To Atlas and Rowan. All the they's and them's The zi's zir's and zim's The fluids, and neo pronoun users... Stay strong. And know that I am with you. Every grueling step of the way. All the ones who spend every day Enduring abuse from ignorant strangers, who wouldn't think twice about actually trying to understand, accept, or even just know you. All the "*****" the "benders" and "trannys". The "perverts" the "toasters" (yes that is actually a thing.) And "*****". All the "drag shows" and "freaks"- Turn every cutting word into another stitch on your flag! Not your skin, Or your soul. And remember - It will get better! You'll move out! Meet people who love you, just for being YOU. They'll use the right pronouns and name. So fly your flag high, and never forget or underestimate OUR power. Strength in numbers, and your **** well not alone! We WILL be loud and fight tirelessly against those who try to strip us of our rights to simply exist. We are proud! WE ARE US! and we're not ever going to be anything else. So here's to the days yet to come. Here's to them. Here's to us! And here's to pride.