Don’t move the dirt from offtop of the sprout; there is something it’s gotta work out for itself. and then don’t be so quick to help it squirm from its shell, thinking that’s just as well; it may not need your help. Clip what‘s been desperate for love and attention; there is energy, then, to bloom out from the core. and feel free to mourn, losing those that you’ve borne; a reflection of you! (for they do not keep score.)