Once, When I was just a child, pondering life in that simple and profound manner in which children so often do, I turned to my mother and told her that all our lives it was as if we were digging our own graves, each shovel full of dirt a memory, experienced and then put aside until the hole was made and we could lay down, covered in the memories we left behind. What a depressing thought! my mother cried and I was confused. In my child mind I could not understand why it should be so sad. Because after all those shovels and memories surely it would be good to rest.