our relationship is me wanting to cut off all my hair because you Let me fall asleep to you stroking it, . our relationship is ignored texts & read receipts . our relationship is a horrible, uneven mix of realism and your romantic tomfoolery, I don't know how I'll ever quit it . coffee and cigarettes on the frosted sidewalk classical music at 3 am borrowed and returned(?) sweaters tedious and enthralling questions mutual humor under the breath shared breath streetlights and sunshine appreciation for life and love substance in emptiness . gossip harrowing and defiling and sneaking its way into every interaction, judgments and standards and I'm never ever good enough to be like them, those significant and aware and profound and charged girls . it's good for nothing and I'm afraid nothing will ever be as good