Long ago a king of France -I don't remember his name - when asked was it possible to love two women at the same time, replied that he loved, equally but in a different way, burgundy and beaujolais, and if he could love two different wines how could he not love two different women?
For me, an inexperienced wine-taster, I could not tell the difference, but give me elderflower champagne fermented from sugar, lemon and hand-picked blossom, fresh, golden and sparkling, or home-βinfused sloe gin, rich, fruity, purple and mature, and I would say I love them both, equally but in a different way.
Yes, but does this mean I could love two women at the same time? Ah, that is a question that I must decline to answer. You see, I might tend to incriminate myself.