The cure for a break up might be
Spending time with your buddies and working on retail therapy
Working on your body and eating right
Drinking it up and meeting new people
I am not saying that its wrong or that it doesn’t work
It does and that it doesn't because no two people break down, walk away or give up on a person in the same fashion
We all had our reasons

You will still face doubts about yourself and your abilities
You will still have trouble saying no to an opportunity, friends and families
Then feeling guilty right after you have said it because all you want right now is to spend time with your self your thoughts and do all it takes to feel stable again
It will get lonely
You will feel sad and depressed on some days
There will be triggers and flashbacks
You will torture yourself with the What if game
Don't sweat it, some questions do not have an answer
There is nothing below right after you have scratched away the ****** surface
You will get upset multiple times in day
Go into denial
Wish that all that love you gave away, comes back to you
All that wasted time, energy and emotion that you did not think you had in yourself
I know it weights heavily on the heart and the mind

The trick to being normal again
To finding yourself again
Is to fall in love with more then one thing, not at the same time but gradually
Really fall in love with it
Bring out passion, optimism hope and hard work
The same things that are poured into a relationship
They could not have been all that bad if they taught you something(s)
About yourself or your body
What you deserve and what you do not need
Where your strengths lie
How to strengthen those weaknesses
You were able to rise above it all
Ultimately all on your own
So always keep your chin up
Otherwise that smile is going to be crooked