I already knew being a woman isn’t easy Walking home from swimming lessons was the first time I was catcalled I didn’t have a phone Parents should raise their little girls like warriors To be a woman today means you know the risk you take everytime you leave your house Be ready to defend why you wore black instead of blue Smiled instead of running the other way Even went out in the first place If you dare speak up you better have something original to say When you tell your daughter about the birds and the bees tell her that sometimes the bees sting Tell her to carry repellent to ward them off Make sure she knows that when little boys pull little girls pigtails sometimes it is because they are cruel and not because they like them Don’t confuse violence for love Make sure she knows what’s ahead of her