Belfast is a bustling town where big muscled men make ships of steel. Down on the Quay we come today to bid farewell and see you off. You have your suit case in your hand. I see you wore your Sunday best. If you were lying in your casket you could not be better dressed. So kiss your Mum a sad goodbye and shake your Father’s hand. You have your ticket in your pocket to take you to a distant land. You siblings and your kin have come to wish you well and say goodbye. To raise a parting glass with you; in truth nobody is dry eyed. Off with you now to America, Where a young man has space to dream. Your mother bravely waves good bye. Only in private will she keen. ******************* Many years later, when he’d grown old, my DA returned to his native land To see the house where he was born now just ruins and in others hands. We visited the parish church where he had been baptized long ago. A Celtic cross marks his parent’s grave and on their plot the wild grass grows. Every one he’d known and loved had passed before him as if a dream. He wept before his sister’s grave and said a prayer for my Aunt Kathleen. His story yet had years to run before the day came he, too, would pass. Then relatives would gather once again and raise to John the parting glass.
Back in the day when young Irish left Ireland for foreign shores all would gather to say farewell. Distance and the expense of travel made it very unlikely that they would see each other again. These farewells were referred to as the "American wake" for dearly departed sons and daughters that lived abroad.