BUILD, your relationship around the child.
Place them first and things will accomplish so much.
JUST SAYING,  many times the system dictate your life.

When a relationship becomes broken and children involved.
Make them the purpose of raising them good and greatly.

Back in olden days child support didn't ruin homes.
Many mothers knew if you called your ex or former spouse with a child request.
Many times, it was honored.

Child, need this or that.
Many times it was there.
Then this was when folks acted grown.
Even when you realized your parents have grown apart and moved on.

The benefit of attention was achieving the best relation for the parent and the child.
Today, it's more about money than the parental connection.
A child only adapts to the stupidity placed before them.
Then you find no one really wins.

Relate, before it's too late.