That's what people tell me. Angry? Just breathe. Emotional? Just breathe. Sad? Just breathe. Breathing will relieve you. But what if breathing is what you're most afraid of?
What if breathing feels like a million lit cigarettes dancing a tango all over your body? What if breathing feels worse than not? The most basic act you need to perform to stay alive is what gives you a longing to die. Ironic, huh?
Deal with it. Things could be worse. Stop feeling sorry for yourself.
As much as people would like to think I'm doing this for attention, I'm not. I would never put myself through this for a few minutes of spotlight. I wish I didn't have to give myself a pep talk every morning just to walk out the door because I'm too ashamed of people looking at me and seeing what I see.
As much as people would like to think I feel sorry for myself, I don't. I feel sorry for the friends that choose to stand by me wanting to take away my hurt but not knowing how because I'm too arrogant to accept their help. I feel sorry for my mother whose own sadness I've failed to find an answer to. I feel sorry for both of my parents, because they live in such small minds that being my true self would be too much and crush them.
As much as people would like to think I should just deal with it, I can't. Maybe I don't know how. Maybe it's a puzzle I can't find the pieces for. Maybe deep down I'm just selfish. Maybe I let myself get this way. Maybe I like feeling the pain. Maybe I'm scared of what I'd feel instead.
Maybe I wish I wasn't such a coward. Sometimes I wish I was strong enough to let the shiny sharp silver take the ride down the river of my arms and watch all of my disappointments and failures and ugliness and mistakes drip from my skin to the concrete.
Maybe I'll deal with it. Maybe I'll stop being selfish. Maybe I can find the strength to muster up a weak smile, and fool everyone.