A mind control that you can't let go of in life. And she predicted in when you had her. She plainly stated you couldn't handle a certain woman.
One firm, stern and strong. She spoke of you wanting a girl you knew in your youth. One you could control without an opinion. But she grew up to be a that certain woman.
One determined, focus and real. Ready to stay learning the world. A certain woman no longer called a girl.
Just like any, she accepts love. Just like many, you must respect her more. After all, she's a certain woman in need of no man bossing her. But an equal partner she can love.