Weird though it may seem, but some people who seem to be unpleasant or rash sometimes are actually the most pleasant and kind ones, and it is instead the ones whom you've known to be the most pleasent and kind ones, turn out to be the opposite of it.
It is hence you ought to be both persevering, patient and adaptable with life, always. You never know your next moment, your next situation, nor how long and how exactly might it affect you, nor does the other person. But then, acting right at right point of time and at the right situation is what is still a responsibilty that you should spare yourself from.!Respecting people and being kind to them is good, but then ya never outaa be so kind and good enough to them, that it gives them the liberty to take you for granted, and disrespect and be unkind to you at any cost.