She’s perched a small pumpkin on a candle stand atop the kitchen table-- an autumnal centerpiece. Though it’s close to Halloween, no jack-o-lantern face grins at you, no flaming eyes flicker. This little pumpkin does not move, of course; there are no miniature horses to pull it like a coach from the castle at midnight and no fairy tale slipper has fallen from it. This pumpkin is more a lesson, a how-to on silent meditation, a guide to learning to be what you are, to live within your pumpkin-ness, as it were.