(And anyone else who might need it) Please be happy. Please try as hard as you can to focus on the good and stop believing that mean girl in your head who lies to you. You have come so far and done so well creating a new life and making yourself happy. Your happiness shouldn't come from someone else. Stop putting yourself down because of your job and because you're single with no kids at 23. You're doing just fine. The quick passing of time doesn't mean anything. Life is long. Please try to be nice and give yourself a break.