Question, men ask a woman with kids.
How many babies daddies you have?

So, why don't they ask him?
More likely he has just as many babies mommas.

How?
He let you get away.
More likely depending on the situation he had no choice in the matter.

Question, a woman should inquire of men.
Do you have a job?
Do you pay your child support?
Do you spend time with your children?
Do you claim them?

If she asking the questions of him?
You more likely find he be asked more than she ever will be.

Finally, do you love your mother?
If he pauses, then that's all you need to know.