Before you start anything with someone else you need to first realise A relationship does not make you whole, it might make you fill the void of being lonely for the moment but like a drug, seeking it for that reason alone wont make you feel complete. To share your views and allow others to be part of your being is sacred and must be only done with those who want to see you grow and find yourself then with those who seek to use you and drain your energy before moving on. So i say find yourself in these moments of confusion and loneliness, make yourself whole before giving pieces of your being to other lonely souls in hope that they may use it to understand you and add to the broken puzzle that is you.