Remember... when you meet, and you’re sitting at a little table with her, chatting and laughing, making eyes over martini glasses or coffee cups, and she starts talking about “the others”, what they did, what she did, and you’re telling yourself whatever it is you’re telling yourself... as you chew on her story, swallowing parts of it, hiding others under your tongue.
Remember: you ARE one of “The Others.”
Taste that on your tongue for awhile. Try not to choke.