Relationships, after a divorce changes.
Except some feel they can dictate the habits of the next love.
And try.

Let's keep it in perspective based not on your sole view on him/her without comprehending they are different.

So your first love was this.
Please don't try to direct their habits.
Let them be them.

Of course, don't accept the bad cause if you divorced you know solely the reasons why?
Why accept bad from another one?

Keep it in perspective.
You seeking someone that knows the art of love.