With the respect and ardor one has when handling any wild thing 2. Understand I will make mistakes for my own sensitivities fail to ever reach as high as my bravery. Everything I do, I do it with gusto, full on, all on, even my mistakes 3. Find ways to play, be it through sarcasm, games, adventure, water gun fights, jump scares, humor, wonder, competition, etc... 4. Share space with me don't own it 5. Be unapologetically honest about your feelings. Never assume I know exactly what you mean 6. Must love being outdoors 7. Keep me supplied in mood lighting such as string lights and candles 8. Tell me at least one genuinely nice thing a month to remember during those times when I'm not very fond of myself 9. Remind yourself that no matter all else I actively choose you every day. Not out of obligation, loneliness, or fear but because I believe in you 10. You're awesome because of your awesome