if they knew all they would become to were some scars i regretted and did my best to forget i wonder if i had known would i have changed my experiences would i have tried to be colder stand straighter more upright chin jutting out, daring the world to try one more time to put me down, defiant and confident in my struggle that it was for me alone but then the thought strikes me is that if even now all i gather are scars instead of the cooling aloe that i need to heal past burns, some ice to cool the heat under my skin from the betrayals and hurt i had felt once upon a time a heat that still burns my insides today, the sharp tears of which left scars on insides of my eyelids, a movie on repeat whenever i close my eyes to sleep or blink in the middle of a good conversation with a new person standing in my casual self wishing i could be somewhere else the moment i remember the slashes, the quiet shattering of my insides