Ambitious Always looking to improve Follows through on what he says he will do Patient and kind Loves my body as much as my mind Looking for a partner in life. (not a token, soon-to-be wife).
Serious, passionate, but knows when to let loose. Makes me laugh, his personality eager and endearing; his humor absurd and sarcastic.
He doesn't ask what I want to do, but if I ask he'll be down to do it too. He wants me to be apart of his friend group. He's charismatic but grounded. My parents and extended would adopt him in a second. He helps my dad in the yard. He helps me when I'm stuck in a broken down car.
He's cute and insanely smart. His kisses leave me weak from the start. He always honest and upfront, reflective about any harm he's caused to anyone.
He's everyone's doorman, but no doormat. A attentive confident. A best friend.
He is well-read but can see what's missing on the page. He isn't afraid of what he hasn't read or what he doesn't know...yet.
He's not a hipster or pretentious but isn't against kale chips or anything equally ridiculous.
He has a passion, maybe two, but isn't so absorbed he forgets there are other things too. But isn't just floating either. He has some direction; He is looking to inspire.
He's a feminist and not because it's PC and cool. He empathizes with the issues and is interested in talking WITH women about them.
He's comfortable chilling with my friends. Even the most difficult people don't bother him.
He is healthy. Does some sort of physical activity. Loves getting physical with me. Is not opposed to going down on me. But isn't like obsessed with it. That's just weird.
Interested in actively deepening our physical and emotional relationship.
For him, everyday is an adventure he'd love to spend with me.
He plans at least half our dates. He rarely complains.
Am I asking for too much? Lol. My mom told me to write down my requirements years ago and I finally did it. I like the poem form because it feel less abstract than a list of traits or qualities.