We listen, listen to folks speak. What? The saving themselves for. But they can't admit many lovers are operating on lust.
I'm saving myself for marriage. Sounds good and nothing wrong with it. But the hunter now knows the scheme and will operate to get by any means. Especially when they operating on lust.
Even if to get it requires marriage.
But once the good has got gotten. Why be surprised that you are forgotten?
While you were living in love. The person that wanted your thrills was simply operating on lust.