What happen to being human? It's just the way people act. Even when being politically correct.
When noticing a woman. Mem starts the proper thing to say. But, you notice her built in many kinds of way.
From her naturally stature. All the way to her chest. You notice her.
You can describe her when your eyes closed. Especially those freckles planted on her nose. And when she walking away from you. Yes, you notice that atracted part too.
Jut keep these words in your thoughts. While you talking in your minds concerning her. She probably aware the way you wanting her.