Maybe I picked up some dad skills. Maybe I already knew. Maybe all they need is attention…
That is all anybody wants, really. To feel like somebody gives a **** about them, to not feel lonely.
That is why he cries when he wakes up from a nap, or in the morning... because he wakes up alone. He just wants to know that you are there, and that you care.
Although he doesn’t need you to hold him all the time, there will be (has been that) time when he falls upon his head, and he’ll need you by his side...
All of this is the sugar on top of succeeding in the effort to not let him die.