Jan 2018
Can you forget somebody forever?
Yes, in most cases.but, what if this question is focused only about those people who meant the whole world to you once, and left naturally, or due to a certain reason now, and perhaps forever?
Here's where we may have been successfully lying, telling others and making them realize the fact, that we actually have moved on, but then, there's still a part inside us dying to say..'No, not really! How can I?' and to be honest, it is heart which makes us feel the same pain by a mere glance of the one who left, or by any of their possessions.
Apart from having an evolved body and mind,we possess a heart, an *****, that feels, and perceived then and now too...Though you may fool everyone else, but you can never fool it! Also, it's only when the emotions becomes intenser enough to handle, it makes the brain feel the pain...And we ultimately shed tears for what's probably isnt ours anymore and gone forever now.
Situations change, and so do people, but there's still a part inside us, that waits, and remembers exactly how it felt then, despite how Ong would it had been! But still as wise beings, at least we should master the art of 'mentally' going with the flow.Weird though it may seem, but its interesting enough at the same point, that 'It is the ones whom we adore the most, and expect happiness from, are often exactly the ones, who actually subject us to pain and loss often, and such departures are not more than having an 'emotional tornado' inside us.
We preach the thought of 'forgiving, forgetting, and moving on' but does that really happen to the core of the heart that actually got hurt enough, for the rest of it's life and that too to an extent that the 'void' thus created inside may never make them feel empty often, but a mere memory can bring it all back again in a flashback? A void, probably that can never be replaced by anyone else ever.
Some people, indeed can be forgiven, but not completely, and can never be forgotten, because of the person they had been!
Therefore, practically the 'emotions' like pain and happiness arise only for a person, we've ever seen as 'important'.We obviously don't smile thoughtfully and weep incessantly for someone, often, ryt?
Not everything that's once done, can be undone, and such is the essence of bondings like friendship, intimacy,love etc.They are pious enough to be forgotten, if the person ever took it seriously.
For, our heart never forgets the ones it smiled sweetly, and wept incessantly for! And maybe that's what makes it hard to forget some people permanently :)
Yes, in most cases.but, what if this question is focused only about those people who meant the whole world to you once, and left naturally, or due to a certain reason now, and perhaps forever?
Here's where we may have been successfully lying, telling others and making them realize the fact, that we actually have moved on, but then, there's still a part inside us dying to say..'No, not really! How can I?' and to be honest, it is heart which makes us feel the same pain by a mere glance of the one who left, or by any of their possessions.
Apart from having an evolved body and mind,we possess a heart, an *****, that feels, and perceived then and now too...Though you may fool everyone else, but you can never fool it! Also, it's only when the emotions becomes intenser enough to handle, it makes the brain feel the pain...And we ultimately shed tears for what's probably isnt ours anymore and gone forever now.
Situations change, and so do people, but there's still a part inside us, that waits, and remembers exactly how it felt then, despite how Ong would it had been! But still as wise beings, at least we should master the art of 'mentally' going with the flow.Weird though it may seem, but its interesting enough at the same point, that 'It is the ones whom we adore the most, and expect happiness from, are often exactly the ones, who actually subject us to pain and loss often, and such departures are not more than having an 'emotional tornado' inside us.
We preach the thought of 'forgiving, forgetting, and moving on' but does that really happen to the core of the heart that actually got hurt enough, for the rest of it's life and that too to an extent that the 'void' thus created inside may never make them feel empty often, but a mere memory can bring it all back again in a flashback? A void, probably that can never be replaced by anyone else ever.
Some people, indeed can be forgiven, but not completely, and can never be forgotten, because of the person they had been!
Therefore, practically the 'emotions' like pain and happiness arise only for a person, we've ever seen as 'important'.We obviously don't smile thoughtfully and weep incessantly for someone, often, ryt?
Not everything that's once done, can be undone, and such is the essence of bondings like friendship, intimacy,love etc.They are pious enough to be forgotten, if the person ever took it seriously.
For, our heart never forgets the ones it smiled sweetly, and wept incessantly for! And maybe that's what makes it hard to forget some people permanently :)
