A woman who chooses a lover who is of her father's generation has a father complex. A woman who chooses a lover who was born the same day as her has a fraternal-twin complex. And, of course, a woman who chooses a lover who looks like her garbage man has a  garbage man complex. I just got off work. I've been boiling potatoes & deep frying scrod all day. 3 men whistled at me. I can't wear an under-wire bra anymore. Oh, how it chafes!