Thankful for this page it helps me get out my frustrations dropping the burden so I can be free from them. I like to help people but I want them to stand on their own not become a crutch. I've seen people change for the wrong reasons but they are motivated. I'd rather them want it and doing it because they choose to do so.
Having a tough time but will make it work or find away without giving up too much over the years it's been tons of loss but learned maintaining is the most important part once you have it. Finding balance who do people give up who they are and sacrifice you can only do that for so long till you move on to something that loves and appreciates everything you do.
Some fear change sometimes change makes you better.