Civilization requires a little effort Ties must be knotted correctly, shoes must be polished Cuffs must be linked, but not at all gaudily - Elegant understatement at all times
On every occasion say “Thank you” and “please” When addressing a lady one’s hat is off And if tomorrow they are going to shoot you Or beat you to death in a re-named street
Do comb your hair, and try to stand up straight Civilization requires a little effort
Re Amon Towles' *A Gentleman in Moscow,* which I recommend highly. You needn't read it in sequence (altho' it's better that way); you can open the book anywhere and enjoy the wit, love, banter, minutiae, and philosophy.