Stop bad-mouthing the American adventure of falling through the cracks! Let us duly rise to the mindful brutishness that made Cary F. Grant so regional. In the West: 30% of divorces are initiated by men. Spare the child and despoil the sacrifice. Beat them into a welcome mat. It's the way in which I dip my children that keeps 'em parasite-free! (It's Iligan City all over again: treacherous, sniffed by dogs, muffed by ingenues.)