I have heard many people use sayings to comfort in loss. They were brighter and couldn't burn as long. It was for the best or it was meant to be. No I don't buy into that! It is hideously wrong for a child to die hours old in a parents arms. There is no solace or words of wisdom as it is being cheated. I cannot imagine my friends loss tonight or the love they had for their baby girl trapped within them. Unable to share it. I seldom cry, but tears rolled down my cheeks. I know not what to say to them.