A person can be unworthy of another because they refuse to be who they need most themself to be, just as another can be unworthy of someone for the reasons they wish that someone to be who they need them most to be.
A person can say they desire a true, mutual love, and yet, turn away and deny someone who shows them that they are desired the way they desire to be, just as another can show someone a love unmutually true, and be so blind in sorrow of rejection to see the true, mutual love beating for them in the heart of another.
We can say that we need someone, but more often than not, we are so focused on wanting a specific someone that we overlook or ignore the right someone.
We build up the objects of our desire to be who we believe they should be for us, while we tear down those who desire us for everything we truly are.
We drown in such sorrow when our love for another proves unmutual, yet we offer the desert to another when showered with a love sincere and true.
Despite all of this, we still wonder why our hearts are always broken.