What is in my head, is my buisness. Unless I tell you, then its our buisness, but not the buisness of those around us. Same goes for you. What you don't tell me, I don't need to know. What you do tell me, Is your buisness alone. Not hers, his, or theirs. Your secrets are safe with me. I've learned my lesson before. Telling nobody, is better than telling all, because it saves confusion in the end.