In a world so full of muddled dichotomies and clumsy classifications, Of spectrums and ranges and imprecise definitions, Of moving targets and sliding scales,
What is a woman?
When your definition’s solid, sorted, and sold Am I an archetype or anomaly in the sordid taxonomy?
Here are my chromosomes: Two Xs to mark the swirling twirls of DNA Properly paired to provide a guide for my curves.
Here is my body: Ripe and rounded and ready for perusal By those who find art in a classical form. ******* that are not perfect, *** that waggles as I walk, A waist that looks even better when I’m angry (Hands on hips and arms akimbo).
Here is my ***: Excited by the touches that evolution would predict. I respond when kissed by stubbled lips, When stroked by calloused hands, When rocked beneath a man that biology would call “The fittest.” Our coupling is a pledge to survive.
Here is my womb: A wonder of chemistry and medicine, It has been occupied for defense against bearing fruit. I have declared my selfishness to doctors, To family, To strangers. I will not house another life Because my own heart is sufficient. I will not nurse another’s hunger Because my appetites are wild. I will not be a mother, And you will not change my mind.
Here is my hysteria: I cry sometimes when books are sad, Or when commercials are touching, Or when I’m angry, Or hungry. Or confused. Or happy. Or whatever.
Here is my meek and mild nature: In the hand that covers an ornery smile. In the hesitation before I swear. In the blush of a lover surprised. In the warmth that you must lose, not earn.
Whether I am a winning or a wanting woman I am finished with apologies. When all is counted/sorted/labeled
My tastes and brightest talents are as tame as I can bear.