You don't have to have complete confidence and self-esteem to love dear, you don't.

What cannot do is when you stick your nails into someone and bite down so that you can latch on. Leeching.

You
Both
Must
Have
Freedom.

If you can not allow that without every worry and doubt squirming underneath your skin until it drives you mad,
Well,
Then that is where work is needed.

Otherwise,
Eventually
You will **** them dry.