hold it in don't speak don't say a word focus on your breathing one breathe in one breathe out watch it leave your mouth into the sky don't stop breathing close your eyes clear your mind think about that day last week when you laughed so hard you couldn't stand up your favourite tv show your dog waiting for you at home open your eyes what do you need to do where do you need to go play it out in your head losen your shoulders repeat words of encouragement you can do it you're ready just remember don't stop breathing