I can remember being about seven or eight years old, and listening to the song 1985 on the radio, as I sat in the back seat of my dad's old Cadillac. I was all bundled up, kind-of cold, waiting for the car to warm up after being inside the bowling alley for my brother's practice. I have always been a good listener, so the lyric about wishing it still was 1985, made me think of my mom. I wondered if she wished she could go back in time. I didn't fully understand of course; except that I spent my childhood wishing I was somewhere else. But now as an adult, I can almost guarantee that my mom felt like that and probably still does. There will always be a period in time when we were the happiest, the best of ourselves. Nostalgia is painful, and dreadful and impossible to forget about.