To be clever, to be intelligent, to be a millionaire and support them as repayment for looking after her, after all that's how the "parenting chain" goes right? they wanted her to grow up and be something of herself and get married.
They hated disappointments
But what did the term mean to them? what did it mean to her? to never fall in love with someone outside their expectations? culture, religion, society,? who were they to stop her? who was she to stop them? after all she was raised by them!
Maybe its because they were once failures. who longed for their underachieved dreams to reside within her, so that they could say that they finally did it. how can life be so selfish, everyone taking yet no thinking, about the feeling of their loved one who their draining?