When you see that middle aged woman- abandoned by death or divorce.... Save your pity! Her children may be grown successful on their own their absence is her success.... She can have a quiet dinner alone... no complaints no demands no sacrifices just the way she likes it.... Movies of her choice - no compromise... paintings of Captain America can now hang upon her bedroom wall... the music that blasts are among her favorites... bringing quiet reminiscences of loves long gone dreams some realized some forgotten... For the first time in her life - She is on a unique journey learning to love and care for only herself....