Perception is a sickness we conceive. Letting people control our reactions. Changing our level of satisfaction. There is choices in every emotion we produce. Being offended is a feeling we have comitted. What you say or do has no effect on my rationality. Unless, I let your insecurities influence how I carry my body. Addressing our contaminations helps open our eyes. No longer being victimized by the lies others drown us in. We can make the decision to keep opposition or let it roll down like rain. Having positivity in all is an unlikely belief. However doesn't mean it can not be studied. Self control, dedication and confidence is the mixture you need. Do not wallow in self inflicted misery. All it takes is you to make a change. There is no other reasoning it really is simplicity.