We are only here for a short visit so don't hurry and don't worry and be sure to smell the flowers along the way and be an optimist and see the opportunity in every difficulty, not the difficulty in every opportunity.
The trick is to just keep breathing, knowing that there were those times when you were in a dark place, buried and left for dead but actually you were planted and were able to grow in new directions.
Know what you are able to bring to the table and trust yourself when you say that you are not afraid to eat alone knowing that everything is hard before it is easy as you discover that your mind is saying go but your body says no.
Don't go through life, grow through life and enjoy the moment because you never get the same moment twice in life so celebrate every tiny victory and when life is sweet, say thank you and celebrate and when life is bitter, say thank you and grow.
You can't do anything about the length of your life, but you can do something about its width and its depth and know you can't change your situation but you can change how you choose to deal with it and never worry about tomorrow like it is promised, because tomorrow is never guaranteed.
Just because some people are fueled by drama doesn't mean you have to attend the performance, so just live for those moments that can't be put into words and remind yourself that it's okay not to be perfect and learn to appreciate life as it happens because those moments will soon pass and you will wish that you had treasured them more. Jon York 2016