Moral judgments is it by him or her? what's the right or wrong will you follow your own insecurity or perhaps open your eyes to who you really are. Maybe no one has to know maybe no one deserves to know "You" there's no need to prove a thing to anyone no, they need to see the most unpredictable moments to where you show yourself without givin any thought, without trying to impress but instead, you're just being you.. That's all you should have to do, you shouldn't try to impress him or her or anyone no, just yourself. push yourself pass your own limits until one day you find someone, someone who CAN go further then you, someone who CAN'T realize it yet, someone who can go further then THEMSELVES "because of you." be as you are, for your days will come where your abilities of being yourself will change the world of a whole other person and you didn't even have to try so hard. yes there will be rough times and yes there will be good although, you may not even notice it, not for years to come but, you make all the difference when you're just being yourself.