THE DOWRY WAS FOR FUTURE WIFE AND LIFE, IT DID NOT GUARANTEE SUCCESS FOR YOU AND ME, I COULD GIVE YOU SOME ADVICE - IT WOULD BE NICE TO KNOW WHEN THEIR THROWING SHOES AND RICE, GOD WILL PROVIDE AND COVER IF YOU HELP YOURSELF, DO NOT RELY ON DESTINY OR THE BEING OF ANOTHER; YOU MUST RE-INVENT EVERY DAY AND THEN PRAY THAT THERE'S SOMETHING POSITIVE TO SAY, TAKE HEED OF PLEASURE AND LEISURE FOREVER, NOT IN PASSING BUT TO BE DONE WITHOUT ASKING, YOU HAVE BEEN GIVEN KEYS, SO USE THEM, NOT JUST TO KEEP THINGS IN PLACE BUT TO OPEN HEARTS AND MINDS AND CLEVERNESS THAT BINDS, BE AHEAD, BECAUSE FORTUNE HAS MANY KINDS.