No one is a fool who falls in or out of love for life is an open inviting field to be played on and love is the terra incognita that has to be explored (unless one wishes to wither away)
one has failed--so what? lessons are learnt experiences are enriched ignorance and folly drop away (those who love should not fear and those who fear should not love)
All that life is is action and progression the libido the will to overcome the courage to be to test one's mettle (to be unafraid of bleeding or of crying) and not to yield thus here lies the raison d'etre for living
It's in making sense of the unknown to discover the truth and meaning of things that we become what we want to be
But those who have not known love will never know what it is to **** life's sweetest nectar a drop of which is enough recompense for the bitterness of love's pain and the faithful vow they are willing to die unto love